WeberFan wrote:Daryl wrote:The whole Yankee go home thing is unfortunate.
People by and large world wide are similar in their values and aspirations, however cultures can influence behaviour.
The "Ugly American" does exist. Loud, uncouth, brash, boastful, dismissive of other cultures, bullying and jingoistic. Hey I just described the current President? The fact that a percentage of US citizens can't see why people from elsewhere despise Trump, indicates that this behaviour is deemed to be acceptable by a percentage of their population.
I've traveled quite a lot, and met many quite likeable and decent Americans, but a few Trump clones stand out. In a crowd at a tourist site you see all the other people putting space between themselves, and the fat couple in the Hawaiian shirts. Unfortunately by definition these are the obvious ones, so overshadow the many decent and polite US citizens.
I've got perhaps 300-400 visa stamps in my (multiple) passports. Been all around the world on business. South America, Asia, Europe, North America, Middle East. All over the place. I'm a citizen of the US. My observation is that there are "ugly XXX" from just about everywhere. I've seen ugly Americans to be sure. I've also seen ugly Brits, ugly Germans, ugly Indians, ugly Koreans, ugly Venezuelans, you name it. No matter where my many travels took me, I saw boorish behavior. Why people can't just be respectful of other people I'll never know. They go somewhere and somehow feel entitled to say and do whatever they want. Every region... Every country... Every culture is different...
I'm nowhere near as well traveled as you are. I do understand the value of courtesy. When it was Shabbat during my time as a guest worker at the Kibbutzim, I climbed off the tractor, showered, put on clean clothes including a button down shirt and tie before going to dinner. I didn't pretend to be Jewish, I just wanted to be respectful.
While the Europeans disposed me, the Israelis liked having me around. I'm an expert mechanic and metal fabricator. I also had my international driver's license for Class A heavy truck. While the European guest workers were working maybe six hour days, I worked twelve hours. I confess that I was motivated by a desire to spend much time around the other guest workers.