Crown Loyalist wrote:To be fair, Honor was always going to fall for a married man. You can't have a story about a Horatio Nelson facsimile without a notorious affair. The way Honor and Hamish (and Emily)'s relationship has gone is basically a rendition of Nelson's love-life, except with fewer obvious moral failings on Honor's part.
I couldn't believe that Honor had fallen for a married man either. But then I considered that oftentimes we do not choose with whom we fall in love, sometimes it just happens.
One scenario in which it happens is when one is the object of another's intense emotions. In my own experiences it is often difficult not to become enamored with someone with whom total immersion of the soul is seen in their eyes.
When you see in someone's eyes the level of their feelings, that lost puppy dog look, and then you see that they see that you see...well...then you both see. See?
How many times have we all thought to ourselves "If he/she could only get inside of my heart for a moment, could see into my soul, could feel what I feel for them, they would fall in love with me.
Consider that Honor could feel what Hamish felt. I am sure it rocked her.
Also, marrying a married man wasn't anything that Honor thought was wrong.
1. it wasn't her idea...never even entered her mind.
2. It, or rather she was proposed to by Emily.
3. It was perfectly legal and in this sense did not interfere with Honor's morals, scruples and values.