Relax wrote:SNIP
I would place a $10,000 bet you have never worked an hour in "soup" kitchen in your life. If you have, it probably was not two hours and a near guarantee there was never a repeat showing of your august self. I will also bet you have never tried to actively get these people off welfare and into a steady job. It is a very rewarding experience, but you have to be careful not to be taken advantage of as well. Generally one learns after being way too compassionate once or twice. I will also bet you have never tried helping out in the foster care system either. Anyone who wants to do this, I have this to say: Regarding foster care "helping:" If you aren't willing to help at least once a week for an entire night/day, building an actual relationship with these needy children, please do not 'volunteer'. Showing up rarely or for short periods of time only reinforces how alienated these children are. It is a major commitment.
When you actually get your hands dirty and try to "help" these people instead of voting to take from others wallets to "help" them, let me know will ya? you will quickly understand that the system as constructed in our country(USA WA st. differs at the state level)actively keeps them there by rewarding them NOT to work(see below). Those like R&H, who I am near positive have never actually worked with those on welfare or tried helping anyone out of their problems outside of the welfare system where their only knowledge/reality of the subject consists of nothing more than a political hack job broad brushed swipe really piss me off. Get off your moral high horse and help out instead of only "helping" alleviate money out of others pockets to assuage your moral conscience you are unwilling to assuage via actually working with these people. Some really do need help. Some need help and are unwilling to accept it. Unfortunately, most, chose to be there via systematic choices they have made for years/decades previously. It is not a simple or clean cut subject. It is fraught with pain and suffering with a few rays of happiness thrown in.
Relax ---
The kids and I (our entire church youth group) work in a homeless breakfast here in Greenville on a regular schedule. Been doing it for going on three years now (I've been doing it for longer than that; the kids didn't start until the girls were 10), and we're also affiliated with a local food bank and a lunch program (our sister church, Wesley Chapel handles the lunches; our youth group flips with theirs once a month). We also support Epworth (a home for boys from troubled families) and the South Carolina Methodist Church is currently really pushing a workfare program that emphasizes entry level jobs and GEDs.
I will concede that there is much truth to what you say. I would also argue, however, that my own experience suggests you're painting with too broad a brush here. Not in your own experiences, but in the way in which you seem to be categorizing welfare recipients in general as "welfare scum." I have met the exact sort of people you're describing, and (like you) I find my sympathy for them . . . strained. I also concede that the way welfare has been currently structured and the ways in which the system can be gamed very often --- very often --- make the life situations of those receiving it worse, not better. This is certainly true in the long term, and I would argue that it's true even in the short term. And, speaking as an adoptive parent, someone who was raised with a foster sister who was basically stolen from her abusive, alcoholic mother by my own mother (back in the day when you could do that without going to jail), and someone who's seen the generational consequences up close and personal, I believe the consequences are worst of all for the kids caught in that mess.
Having said all of that, I have personally worked with men (and women) who are neither Downs Syndrome kids nor "welfare scum" and who have been entirely willing to work for food and to take entry level jobs almost anywhere (when they can get them). Mind you, I have to admit that I've worked with a larger number of them who have been a lot more willing to work for cash to buy beer or wine than for food, but that's not always the case.
I agree that a system which requires work, at least from the able-bodied, is far superior to the way the system we have works to maintain and even increase dependency rather than breaking the dependency cycle. And I suspect that much of the reason it's so broken is that it's so much easier for government programs to throw money at the problem and ameliorate outright disaster than it is for government to build the sort of ground-level-up infrastructure which would both require work and help provide that work. The most successful efforts I've seen in that direction have come out of churches and the private sector at the local community level, probably because they actually know their communities, are small enough the people running the programs (who are almost always volunteers who believe in what they're doing) don't turn into bureaucrats, and they are focused on results rather than bandaids. And, of course, a big part of the problem (from my own observation) comes from people who may be deeply committed to helping others but who judge the success of their efforts by the nobility of their intentions and the amount of effort they invest rather than by the results they achieve. I've seen way too many people congratulate themselves on their enlightened attitudes without ever questioning whether or not existing programs and efforts are accomplishing the goal of getting people permanently out of welfare.

Having said all of that and, I think, having found myself in substantial agreement with you, you're preaching to the choir when you hammer the problems in conversation with people who are up to their elbows in the problem already and probably moving yourself into the "fanatic" category when you unload on those who haven't been there and done that. The truth is that actually fixing the problem is going to require a pretty stiff dose of reality for the people building, maintaining, and supporting the present system (since they're the very people we have to convince to scrap the present system and build a better one), and much of that reality is exactly what you've just described. The problem is that we've got to get them to listen to us if w're ever going to change it, man. Whacking them between the eyes with a ballpeen hammer may not be the best way to get 'em to do that.

BTW, have you ever detailed your activities on the forum before? I only ask because it's obvious (to me, at least) that you've been there and paid your dues in a way which gives you a right to strong opinions. I'm just wondering if any of the people out there who have read earlier posts from you as "rants in a vacuum" without realizing the experience which underlies them?