roseandheather wrote:Just ignore Relax. He's a particularly virulent strain of conservative which has no concept of 'social responsibility'. Any welfare system has its problems, and Haven is an excellent illustration of the consequences of those problems getting out of hand, but our welfare system is nowhere near as bad as that same virulent strain of conservative makes it out to be.
Sorry for another long post, but man the attitude and arrogance given off by RoseAndHeather and those like her really piss me off regarding this subject. They all blather on and use the "social responsibility" catch-all phrase justification to pigeon hole, castigate others, without any basis in reality of what the welfare system, foster care system, mecicare system, etc actually entails. It is also a near guarantee that anyone who uses this phrase has never actually gotten their hands dirty in these systems.
If you are like 99.999%; Let me guess...
I would place a $10,000 bet you have never worked an hour in "soup" kitchen in your life. If you have, it probably was not two hours and a near guarantee there was never a repeat showing of your august self. I will also bet you have never tried to actively get these people off welfare and into a steady job. It is a very rewarding experience, but you have to be careful not to be taken advantage of as well. Generally one learns after being way too compassionate once or twice. I will also bet you have never tried helping out in the foster care system either. Anyone who wants to do this, I have this to say: Regarding foster care "helping:" If you aren't willing to help at least once a week for an entire night/day, building an actual relationship with these needy children, please do not 'volunteer'. Showing up rarely or for short periods of time only reinforces how alienated these children are. It is a major commitment.
When you actually get your hands dirty and try to "help" these people instead of voting to take from others wallets to "help" them, let me know will ya? you will quickly understand that the system as constructed in our country(USA WA st. differs at the state level)actively keeps them there by rewarding them NOT to work(see below). Those like R&H, who I am near positive have never actually worked with those on welfare or tried helping anyone out of their problems outside of the welfare system where their only knowledge/reality of the subject consists of nothing more than a political hack job broad brushed swipe really piss me off. Get off your moral high horse and help out instead of only "helping" alleviate money out of others pockets to assuage your moral conscience you are unwilling to assuage via actually working with these people. Some really do need help. Some need help and are unwilling to accept it. Unfortunately, most, chose to be there via systematic choices they have made for years/decades previously. It is not a simple or clean cut subject. It is fraught with pain and suffering with a few rays of happiness thrown in.
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PS. To someone else up thread: We generally require folks to go for "interviews" and "submit" resumes obtaining welfare. There are many loop holes and exceptions to get around this requirement. Depends if it is welfare or unemployment benefits regarding the loop holes. Also depends if you have children or not. If you are single, yes, you can actually get cut off.

But if you have children, it is next to impossible to get cut off.
Very rarely do the children get taken by DSHS. Personally, this should happen more often. The reason is rather sick as to why quite often these children are conceived to start with. Those who go on welfare, make sure to get "married" or not as the case may be, and have kids ASAP. Food stamps are given out irregardless of the previous scenarios in previous paragraph pretty much. Same goes for medicare. My cousin for instance receives over $1200 in food stamps every month for herself, her husband and two children you and I paid all the hospital bills for her to get pregnant and give birth along with checkups for the first two years of life. Also their rent. Officially the welfare rent only covers 6 months out of 12, but they delay their apartment supervisor and since they have children this adds yet more delay if anyone tries to evict them, so the government pays for 6 months rent, my cousin stiffs the the owner out of the other 6 months via manipulating the system and then moves onto the next sucker who is too stupid to not create an excuse denying her a lease. Low income housing is even worse set of problems that thankfully I have not had to deal with but only heard about so I will not go into it here. By the way: Ain't the dole great? I kid you not about my cousin and her kids. All because she and her husband choose not to work. After all if they started working, their benefits would be cut. So, anyone on welfare has to land a pretty good paying job to surpass the benefits "given" to them. Guess what? Lazy people willing to go on welfare to start with do not find "good" paying jobs where they get to sit on their butts all day long doing nothing but watching TV. Such jobs do not exist. My cousins husband quit being a security guard. It was too "hard". He wasn't "appreciated" enough. A Bleeping Security guard! That lasted all of 1.5 months. My cousin worked at a day care center for a while, but immediately quit after finding out that if she made too much money so their access to food stamps was going to be cut and next was going to be their rent. Oh the horrors! My cousins family on welfare are not unique.
Go work in a homeless shelter. Offer anyone of them a job bagging groceries. No takers. I can get mild cases of Down syndrome or those with similar afflictions, older kids and adults, to beam beatifically at me when I manage to get them this job. Generally only adults who live very close to said grocery. Got a young gal doing shelf stocking at night as well.
Offer welfare scum a job flipping hamburgers. No takers. "Oh horrors the stigma of entry level work"
Offer them a job working construction. A rare few will do this job for a few weeks and then promptly quit, or work so slowly you may as well not have him on the job, or just never show up leaving the contractor pissed off at me for being so compassionate and stupid.
Offer these homeless guys a job working in a greenhouse. No takers. Offer this job to a down syndrome kid and their parents who will drive them there and pick them up everyday and they will
leap at the opportunity.
Offer these homeless or welfare recipients a job working on a farm. No takers. Not "classy" enough for them.
Offer these lazy scoundrels a job as a parking lot attendant right next to the BLEEPING! soup kitchen and I actually got one guy to do the job... For 1 month till he got fired as he was generally never there even though he could sleep RIGHT NEXT DOOR where free food and access to a shower was available! I did fill this slot with a woman attendant who had 3 children, hmm actually I think it was two, who was in flight from an abusive husband. That lasted 8 months till she was able to move on and is now working at Microsoft.
I can keep going with more personal examples and hordes of examples from others.
Sorry for long post
