cthia wrote:Euphemisms are subjective, are subjective, are subjective.
Indeed, your previous example of the hand-wringing over "Black" vs. "Negro" boils down to whether one prefers the English or Spanish/Portuguese words that mean precisely the same thing. (The newer "African-American" does not mean the same thing, because it can't logically be applied to people who aren't Americans as the other words can.)
Because of the subjectivity, we have what I call the Euphemism Treadmill. Let us use as an example, the word "crippled" and its successors.
Being crippled is a bad thing, so we were told to call crippled people "handicapped" instead. So we did.
Being handicapped is a bad thing, so we were told to call
crippled handicapped people "disabled" instead. So we did.
Being disabled is a bad thing, so we are told to call
crippled handicapped disabled people "differently-abled" instead. I'm tired of the treadmill, so I've stepped off the damned thing.
It doesn't matter what name you use to describe crippled/handicapped/disabled person as such; you are describing a negative. Once everyone catches up to the fact that the euphemism means the same thing as the word it replaces, the new word needs to be replaced.
If we allow for two millenia of this nonsense, I shudder to think of the convoluted circumlocutions that will be necessary to placate the perpetually aggrieved.
I think a grat Honorverse example of euphemism is the "Citizen ${Rank}" nonsense, which came from precisely the sort of folks who demand we sweep away the ancien regime and all its trappings, including language. Shannon Foraker's casual disregard of their dictates showed her to be a kindred spirit. How could I possibly root for her to fail?